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Post by nomorewirehanger on Apr 6, 2016 13:10:16 GMT -7
Well. Back on topic. Since my husband being a moron wasn't really the point of this. My books came in today.  I'm hoping they at least get me some decent tips on how to get my point across without turning into a psychotic swearing rage monster just to make them wash their hair. That would be great. |
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Post by KyLady on Apr 6, 2016 13:28:20 GMT -7
I genuinely hope that the books help you find the peace you are looking for, but I disagree that your husband's misbehaviour is not the main focus of this thread. While, as a very imperfect soul, I understand the desire to empathize, understand, and forgive a spouses flaws in order to mitigate my own... He needs to step up to the plate and you cannot forgive or read him into acceptable behaviour
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Apr 6, 2016 20:28:52 GMT -7
Please edit his name out. We aren't in our secluded room I just realized.
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Apr 6, 2016 20:40:01 GMT -7
As for the rest. Rome wasn't built in a day. I suppose I'm more patient with this than most seeing as how I actually live with him and know how far we've come. I can't change people but I can change how I react to it. I cannot "demand" a 36 year old man change over night. Progress is being made. It's not like either of us isn't trying.
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