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Post by smokinghorse on Feb 18, 2016 13:20:56 GMT -7
.....you get aggravated at posts about praying. Now ordinarily I try to stay out of it. If it works for you, great. Not my thing, but it's important to a lot of folks, and I really do respect that.
Then there's this one bitch. Every. single. day. "I'm having a hard day. Pray for me." "I just can't seem to find the strength today. Pray for me." "____ stubbed his toe today. Pray for him." "It's windy today. I just got my hair done. Pray for me." Okay, I made that last one up, but dear FSM. NO!! YOU PRAY. It's stupid, but it's more embarassing that you post this silliness. GO TO CHURCH. But lately it's all, "Pray for Peace." "Pray for cancer survivors." "Pray for soldiers." "Pray for the unbelievers to learn the love of Jesus." Always with some stupid, "prayer changes lives" or "praying heals" or "show everyone the power of prayer" tagline. And this, for whatever reason, makes me nutty. It's ridiculous, it's a cop out, it's disingenuous, it's dishonest, and it allows you to do nothing, and still feel smug and superior about it. Well, I don't have time to actually DO anything, but I'm sure Jesus isn't busy!! All those wars don't involve Christians, and Ted Cruz seems to be getting the word out.
Yeah. I'm irritated. And I'm about ready to respond with this:
Let me share with you my favorite non-religious, atheist saying: "Two hands working can accomplish more than a thousand clasped in prayer."
WORK to stop cancer. VOTE for the change you want. FEED hungry children. TEACH someone to read. COOK someone a meal. VOLUNTEER at a shelter. DRIVE someone to the voting booth. CAMPAIGN for your candidate. WHO HAVE YOU HELPED TODAY?
How about 1 hour a day of action, rather than 10 seconds of posting. It really, actually, tangibly CHANGES LIVES.
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Post by ronin on Feb 18, 2016 14:16:58 GMT -7
OMFG, this! I have a cousin who's family seems to always need prayers for "problems" that are basically everyday life shit that everyone deals with. Just in case you think I'm being mean...
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Post by smokinghorse on Feb 18, 2016 14:44:56 GMT -7
OMFG, this! I have a cousin who's family seems to always need prayers for "problems" that are basically everyday life shit that everyone deals with. Just in case you think I'm being mean... Bitch, please! Sounds like a Thursday. God made Thursdays. Rejoice.
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Feb 18, 2016 16:16:33 GMT -7
Eyerolls.
I'm a Christian. And these types of bitches are the reason I quit going to church.
God helps those who help themselves. Prayer isn't an excuse to be lazy
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Post by smokinghorse on Feb 18, 2016 16:49:50 GMT -7
I reread it and got irritated all over again. Your family is under attack. Yes, Satan is spreading germs, lying in wait to create extra-slippery ice for your clumsy ass son, keeping your husband from eating vegetables, or being proactive about whatever ailment he's seeing a doctor for, and exhausting you with a doctor appointment for your daughter in addition to your normal heavy truckload of workin' for the Lord! And now Satan has masterfully sabotaged your quality time, too!!
Wonder how many families out there would eagerly trade "lives under attack" with you, you perfect, shiny example of white privilege?
Also, I KNOW you have Christmas cards from this wackjob. Pics. Abby needs pics, please!!
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Post by kissy on Feb 18, 2016 18:00:42 GMT -7
It's funny, I have lots of religious friends. I have the extreme ridiculous ones like y'all have posted about and then I have a few who I actually enjoy reading their religious posts (usually shares, inspirational stuff). Me and the hide button on FB are really good friends, I can't stand that shit. Especially from those self righteous assholes. STFU.
I also can't stand the 'Please pray for my family' with NO indication what's going on. It's annoying as fuck. Having said that I've gotten to the point where when I feel inclined to yell STFU I just stop reading.
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Post by smokinghorse on Feb 18, 2016 18:14:47 GMT -7
That's my problem, kissy. I engage in all this shit that pisses me off. I could hide it. I totally should hide it. And then I take it one step further by spensing time complaining about things that I think are a waste of time. So, I not only keep reading it, but I go on to prove that I'm guilty of wasting my time bitching about how they're a waste.
Sometimes I even rant about how stupid it is to rant. If it bothers you so much, fucking ignore it! Hmmmm, stupid much, Abby?
I need help.
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Post by kissy on Feb 18, 2016 18:22:19 GMT -7
You're not alone. I do it too. It really depends one my mood. If I'm in a shitty mood I tend to make it shittier by getting pissed off at the stupid things people post. It takes a lot to shift my mood long enough to recognize I'd be better off just walking away. I can't tell you how many times I've seriously considered shutting Facebook down completely.
You've got a lot going on and a LOT of emotions at surface level. I get it. Get your frustrations/emotions out however you need to honey!
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