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Post by smokinghorse on Mar 2, 2016 21:29:08 GMT -7
You're crazy. I love you. I think I have a solution. We'll live in a commune. I can sit around and make smart ass comments, while you do everything. It's perfect!
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Mar 3, 2016 1:28:23 GMT -7
Lol sounds good
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Mar 5, 2016 20:09:10 GMT -7
Have been (dare I say thankfully) eliminated from the softball tournament ...we now have all day tomorrow to rest, prep, and spend our last day together as a family of 6.
I'm still nervous.
And despite my exhaustion managed to be painfully polite to people. Even the ones who continue to comment on my abnormal size .
(It's honestly happening so often and frequently that I've just quit responding. Clearly almost 50 lbs isn't enough weight. And telling people that's what I've put on gets me looked at stupid. I told L today "am I supposed to apologize for not being fat enough?? I don't understand!! ")
I was 126 lbs of damn near solid muscle when we got pregnant. My Doctor is concerned about my weight gain as it's highly unusual for my pregnancies.... I'm just very much looking forward to spending my last day ever pregnant? Not getting critiqued over a scale.
I'm scared. Swollen beyond reason. And ready to have this kid.
Here's to the last day lol
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Post by ronin on Mar 6, 2016 8:28:43 GMT -7
I hope they're relaxing days filled only with minor scrubbing; and mild kid fights; and a passive aggressive hubby that gets more done than get on your last nerve. (Realistic best wishes...take it as easy as you can.)
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kissy
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Post by kissy on Mar 6, 2016 14:13:52 GMT -7
People worry far too much about the weight gain--I gained 50 lbs with Ryan and I gained quickly. My OB wasn't concerned so not was I. I was huge when I gave birth, and I lost almost all of it within 6 months. They're all different, and age and physical health matters, so why people choose to comment is beyond me. They can't possibly know. It's almost here! I'm so excited for you. No stress mama.  |
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Mar 6, 2016 15:27:48 GMT -7
My docs only concern was it was a lot for ME. My last two I only gained 20-25 lbs total. This one I not only doubled that I gained my first 25 in the first tri mester. But as I wasn't diabetic and my blood pressure and other numbers have stayed pretty good (except my iron. Which is very low. I'm taking lots of supplements) he quit worrying about it.
L says the weight is literally all in my abdomen , ass and legs. Because I didn't get big in my face or neck and I tend to wear dark colors it's not "obvious" that I weigh over 170 lbs right now
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kissy
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Post by kissy on Mar 6, 2016 17:20:48 GMT -7
Since I only had ONE, I didn't a have an 'that's a lot for you', lol. He simply based it on my height and starting weight and felt I was doing just fine and gaining as I was supposed to. I think I gained as much as I did because I was underweight before I got knocked up. My body did what it was supposed to do, I'm sure yours did too.
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Post by smokinghorse on Mar 6, 2016 18:37:20 GMT -7
I am ready. Just thought it would help you to know.
Let me tell you what I've recently learned about fear. It's a mirage. Smoke and mirrors. It doesn't exist anywhere unless it's invited in. So don't name it, don't conjure it, don't invoke it, and it can't touch you. Preparedness, trust, and knowledge are all you need.
Go, Rocky!!
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Mar 6, 2016 18:52:14 GMT -7
Big hugs abs. Thank you xoxo
I'll post pics or text Kissy as soon as I'm able to.
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Post by smokinghorse on Mar 6, 2016 21:58:40 GMT -7
Hugs!!!!
Kisses!!!!
Excited for you!!!
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Mar 7, 2016 7:38:06 GMT -7
He's balancing the check book and then "washing some dishes I guess" (the ones I've refused to touch. Two days worth. )
I'm hungry. Think I'll take a nap until it's time to leave Lol take my mind of my dry throat and rumbling tummy
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Post by nomorewirehanger on Mar 7, 2016 10:49:12 GMT -7
One more person tells me what I can't fucking do on that Facebook post swear to Jesus.
Wore my glasses. Because.." you have to" ...
Nurse said I could have kept my contacts in. No biggy.
And I will eat what the fuck I damn well please tonight.
I'll drink their soup. And then my husband is gonna bring my highly anemic ass a damn cheeseburger.
Geez. People Lol
Other than that. We are chilling ..about to start second IV
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