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Post by nomorewirehanger on May 18, 2016 17:06:04 GMT -7
Ended up yelling at L instead today. It's cool. He deserved it. So long as he deserved it...  Totally. |
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Post by smokinghorse on May 18, 2016 22:18:16 GMT -7
I'm ready to shank mine, too. I've been pretty goddamn nice, but today I just didn't have it in me. And frankly, I think I deserved a pass. I've been dealing with a bunch of shit, and I'm bitchy.
It wasn't a fight. Just a very, meaningfully spoken, "Stop. Fucking. Touching. Me. I'm not kidding. If you even try to so much as hump my fucking leg, I will end you. Leave me alone." Then I literally wailed (not shitting you) "I JUST WANT TO BE WANTED!!" And left the bedroom crying and slammed the door.
And then sat alone upstairs crying because he didn't come after me. 3 hours later, I'm still pissed, I still wanna cry, and I still think I'm right. It's not like I don't know I'm being insane. It's just that some days it's too much, and I need to be wrong and still be right.
Just some days.
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Post by nomorewirehanger on May 18, 2016 22:25:05 GMT -7
Hugs. Mine uttered the phrase "she's two months old ...it's not like she's that much work" in a heated discussion about why he didn't get laid today.
And still has no clue why I'm not speaking to him.
They are born dumb. They quite literally cannot help it. This fucker is a father if five and somehow thinks infants magically change their own diapers and feed themselves, or in the case of the diva... entertain themselves. Because if she's not being spoken to she's wailing.
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Post by kissy on May 19, 2016 5:42:28 GMT -7
I'm ready to shank mine, too. I've been pretty goddamn nice, but today I just didn't have it in me. And frankly, I think I deserved a pass. I've been dealing with a bunch of shit, and I'm bitchy. It wasn't a fight. Just a very, meaningfully spoken, "Stop. Fucking. Touching. Me. I'm not kidding. If you even try to so much as hump my fucking leg, I will end you. Leave me alone." Then I literally wailed (not shitting you) "I JUST WANT TO BE WANTED!!" And left the bedroom crying and slammed the door. And then sat alone upstairs crying because he didn't come after me. 3 hours later, I'm still pissed, I still wanna cry, and I still think I'm right. It's not like I don't know I'm being insane. It's just that some days it's too much, and I need to be wrong and still be right. Just some days. Big hugs! I get it.  Had an argument with J yesterday. Turns out he was right and I was wrong. He apologized first which made it easier for me to apologize and admit I was wrong. I got lucky. |
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Post by ronin on May 19, 2016 6:52:53 GMT -7
Now I feel left out because I didn't have a fight.  |
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Post by KyLady on May 19, 2016 7:11:43 GMT -7
I have fought with Colin every single night for this past week that he's been away for work. It is cool though, because all I have to do is hang up and I don't have to deal with it any more.
The sad part is, I used to be very upset after our fights, I cared what he thought of me and his likes and dislikes, it bothered me if we aren't getting along. I don't care anymore. I hang up the phone and it's oot of my mind completely, I just move on to the next thing. I don't like the act of fighting, but I know longer get upset that it happened after the fact. I don't relive it in my mind trying to figure out where we went wrong
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Post by nomorewirehanger on May 20, 2016 17:45:00 GMT -7
A car wreck will absolutely fuck up your day
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Post by KyLady on May 20, 2016 21:03:06 GMT -7
Wtf happened?
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Post by smokinghorse on May 20, 2016 21:37:10 GMT -7
A car wreck will absolutely fuck up your day I second the "wtf happened?". |
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Post by nomorewirehanger on May 20, 2016 22:03:34 GMT -7
Lady ran a red light. I didn't see her in time. Plowed her t bone style.
Tank is totaled. I'm heartbroken over that. But. Baby and penny and I and the lady all walked away. She and I are both banged up.
But this could have been much worse.
Can't get into details on Facebook because police are involved. She's claiming I ran a Red. I most certainly did not. She also didn't have proof of insurance and had out of state plates.
No witnesses stopped. Though half the town recognized my truck and pulled over afterwards (stickers)
My arm looks awful but isn't broken. It took the brunt of the airbag.
I'm exhausted and on serious pain meds and can't sleep.
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Post by smokinghorse on May 20, 2016 22:45:20 GMT -7
Wow, darlin' scary! So glad everyone is okay! Traffic accidents are awful. From the fear to the trauma to the bullshit to the police to the insurance.
Hope you have witnesses that can confirm the red light she ran. If she's not found officially at fault on the police report, insurance is going to be a nightmare.
I'm so sorry! This is not what you needed right now! Stay heavily medicated and don't yell. Or yell, but at the pain. Wish I was closer. :-(
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Post by nomorewirehanger on May 21, 2016 5:17:45 GMT -7
She has no insurance or couldn't prove it yesterday.
I'm biting the bullet on the insurance anyway.
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Post by nomorewirehanger on May 21, 2016 5:19:15 GMT -7
And my truck is paid for and very likely totaled. Multiple airbags deployed. The side ones thought about coming down. Front end is crumpled to the wheel well.
Tank is gone.
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Post by ronin on May 21, 2016 5:40:32 GMT -7
Oh no! That's awful. I hope your insurance is good to you. How's Penny holding up?
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Post by KyLady on May 21, 2016 5:56:01 GMT -7
Shit. I second how's Penny doing?
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