Post by nomorewirehanger on Dec 18, 2015 8:08:34 GMT -7
We've been having some minor (and they aren't bad) issues lately with B. Not wanting to move. After ten years here he finally has friends, is thoroughly enjoying school. Doesn't want to leave.
But. These friends.
Are all seniors.
He's been here and there with them (to taco bell after a football game etc) but they are all 18. He's just 14.
They are all band kiddos. He looks up to these guys. They are section leaders, apparently good students. But I've never met them.
All I know about the boy who is gonna drive my son around tonight is that he is 18, drives a Honda civic, plays trumpet, and has a name. (First not last)
His mother has basically given him permission and money to do as he pleases. Its her weekend. We can't tell him no.
All I had to say when he said he as " going out" tonight was ask a few questions about where (I'm sure there is more than bowling involved...) And who. Etc.
Told him to be himself. Not to feel pressured to party because they are older. And remind him he can call me. No matter what. No matter what time. For any reason.
I feel help less here.
But. These friends.
Are all seniors.
He's been here and there with them (to taco bell after a football game etc) but they are all 18. He's just 14.
They are all band kiddos. He looks up to these guys. They are section leaders, apparently good students. But I've never met them.
All I know about the boy who is gonna drive my son around tonight is that he is 18, drives a Honda civic, plays trumpet, and has a name. (First not last)
His mother has basically given him permission and money to do as he pleases. Its her weekend. We can't tell him no.
All I had to say when he said he as " going out" tonight was ask a few questions about where (I'm sure there is more than bowling involved...) And who. Etc.
Told him to be himself. Not to feel pressured to party because they are older. And remind him he can call me. No matter what. No matter what time. For any reason.
I feel help less here.
